Oh Deer!
We've spent the past several weeks getting settled into the house. Finally, last week Thursday evening after the kids were in bed, and in between them getting up 73 times a piece for a drink, a snack, a bandaid and to discuss the upcoming election in order to avoid sleeping, I blurted out, "We are doing something this weekend. We are going to go and see something."
I then offered to plan it all, and didn't want to tell anyone what we were doing.
Last Saturday we awoke up (anticipated) rain. No problem, my plans were solid "Ok in rain" plans (plus it was supposed to be clear by 11am). We got up, got ready and were out the door by just after 9am. The PLAN was to hop on a train, take it 20 minutes north, hop on a ferry and go visit the nearby island of Itsukushima, often called Miyajima island (Shrine island).
How the morning ACTUALLY panned out:
I got us on the train. Headed in the wrong direction. We got off on the first stop. But..it's Saturday morning in a small town. The next train is not scheduled to come take us BACK to where we came from for 40 minutes. Options?
1. Walk. It will take 53 minutes according to google maps. But Google maps does account for my 4 children. I predict 1 hour and 24 minutes. NOPE.
2. Taxi. We will have to take 2, because there are that many of us. And I have a stroller that I am not confident will fit in the trunk of any taxi. NOPE.
3. Sit and wait for the next train. BINGO.
I was so angry. I was ticked at myself, and frustrated because we were on a time schedule. We had a wedding to attend in the late afternoon.
We got on the train finally, went BACK to our starting point, hopped on the CORRECT train going the CORRECT direction and started our adventure AGAIN...an hour later. And i'm so glad that we decided to continue with the day.
We then walked up the hill to a Buddhist temple, and this was my favorite part of the whole day. As we waked around we noticed all these small statues that all were wearing knit caps.
I did a little bit of looking and learning and found that they are called Jizo, and they are said to be protectors of travelers, but more importantly, of children or babies who have passed away. They protect the children until their parents can be with them. As a way of thanking them and helping them continue to watch over the children, people knit them hats to keep them warm. I'm not exactly sure why, but this hit me hard, and I found it really beautiful. I also gained a new respect for these little statues that I have also seen around my own little town.
Something I learned during my time in South Korea, which is translating over to living here in Japan, is if I take the time to learn WHY something is the way it is, suddenly it goes from a nice thing (or sometimes even a frustrating cultural difference), to something I understand and respect. This is what I felt with these little statues. At first i saw funny little statues with hats. By the time I left I had a new respect for the people and their love for their children.




















I loved learning these new cultural ways
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